Dream about ex…weird?

By admin · Thursday, May 28th, 2009


any ideas?
I was walking around in early evening (fall) on my college campus and I saw an ex of mine I haven't seen for 10 years. In my dream he was walking past me brusquely, so I grabbed him by the wrist to make him stop and look at me. When he did, I realized he seemed taller than remembered, wearing two jackets, a scarf, slacks and so on, old fashioned, 1930's wear. I told him that he looked gorgeous. I took one of his jackets. I was going to give it back to him later. It was velvet, or soft, I think it was the underneath jacket. When he walked away I smelled the jacket and it was like cold fresh air mixed with pine. I ended up seeing a girl in one of my "classes", and she complained that she was cold and looked at the jacket in my hands pointedly. I told her no way with this jacket, he'd never forgive me, so I went to get mine from my seat, a Motorcycle Jacket/hoodie. I was aware that I didn't look my best in my odd clothes.
I am definitely not in love with him, and will not be looking him up…I was 18 at the time, it's long past. I just don't understand the jacket, his jacket. Or why I was guarding it.

It sounds like you may be missing him and the comfort you felt with him a little. Maybe some smell or sight triggered him in your mind. You also sound a tad self-conscious, are you maybe having relationship issues, or longing for someone or even something?That could account for your not thinking you looked your best. The 30's clothes could be an overblown representation of the past.
Weird? No way! WhenI dated a guy and it started to get serious, I used to dream that I killed him, usually with a shotgun!

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By allthingznew on May 28th, 2009 at 11:13 pm

Dreams are composed of small bits of memories we have collected through out the day. You may have smelled a scent through out the day that triggered a memory of your ex or conducted a activity that you two use to do together.

A dream is just the process showing you had entered into a deep phase of sleep. Don't take this as a clue to look up your ex in your yellow pages, because tomorrow you will have forgotten all about the dream and have a new one.
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By trpetersons on May 28th, 2009 at 11:29 pm

Dreams are your bains way of doing a defrag. It is just a mixture of memories and emotions you have had, being sorted.

They never make sense…… they are not supose to…. it is just a way to keep your brain healthy.
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By MTsBabydoll on May 29th, 2009 at 12:15 am

It sounds like you may be missing him and the comfort you felt with him a little. Maybe some smell or sight triggered him in your mind. You also sound a tad self-conscious, are you maybe having relationship issues, or longing for someone or even something?That could account for your not thinking you looked your best. The 30's clothes could be an overblown representation of the past.
Weird? No way! WhenI dated a guy and it started to get serious, I used to dream that I killed him, usually with a shotgun!
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By gopher_baroque on May 29th, 2009 at 12:24 am

To dream of autumn, indicates that something is about to come to an end and something new will begin. Alternatively the dream is symbolic of the cycle of life.

To dream that evening has arrived, denotes the end of a cycle, aging or death. It may also be symbolic of unrealized hopes.

To dream that you are on a campus, indicates your need to expand your thinking/knowledge and challenge yourself mentally.

To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream serves to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.

Alternatively, seeing your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.

To see a scarf in your dream, symbolizes self-restrictions. You may be too controlling of your emotions instead of expressing them. Or you may feel that your voice is being muffled.

To see or wear a jacket in your dream, represents the image that you want to present and project to the outside world. Alternatively, it symbolizes your protective and defensive persona. You tend to distant your feelings and as a result, you may be isolating yourself. Consider also the color, appearance, and type of jacket for additional significance

To dream that you are wearing velvet, signifies distinction and honor. It also represents your sensuality and emotions.

To dream that something is given to you, suggests that you need to appreciate the gifts you have.

To smell something in your dream, indicates your past experiences and feelings with that particular smell. Your dream is trying to convey a feeling by associating it with a familiar smell or scent. Alternatively, the scent may be part of your real environment which you have incorporated into your dream.

To see a girl in your dream, represents your playful, innocent, and childlike nature. Perhaps you have been behaving immaturely.

To dream that you are giving something away, indicates that you need to give more in some relationship or situation. To be able to give helps fulfill our need to share and belong.

To dream that you are in a classroom, symbolizes that you may be learning an important life lesson.
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Either you feel in some way that you still have feelings for this man, or you feel that you ended the relationship by taking something of his and giving it to someone else.
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maybe u still have feelings 4 ur ex…
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