Why am I getting a lot of attention all of the sudden?
I just posted this like…40 minutes ago, but I wanted to post it again with a few more details to see if I get different responses.
Last year I was practically invisible. I had a group of friends that I hung out with and my first year of highschool was virtually drama-free. At least when there was some drama I ended it quickly and simply severed ties with that person. This year, however, it has been a whole different ball game.
It all started at about 1 week before school started. I liked this guy that made me feel really awesome about myself and everything, so I guess I had a huge burst in confidence. I started to talk to people I had lost touch with. Suddenly, it seemed like my invisible paint came off. I had a guy asking me to send pictures of myself to him, a few guys telling me that I’m hot, and two asking me out. One even sort of stalking me. These guys’ age varies from 15-18.
I have noticed guys looking at me more often now, but I’m really confused. All I did over summer was cut my bangs! I don’t think I got miraculously hott over summer! I don’t know why all of the sudden it’s like everyone knows I’m alive and is flirting with me and/or being really perverted with me. It’s making way more drama than I’d like.
What the hell happened?
Oh, and I’ve had boobs for a while. ;] They haven’t really grown, either.
I’ve also never had a boyfriend or even been kissed, so I can’t have a reputation of like "putting out" or whatever. My style has changed a bit. It’s edgier and more rock and roll now. Leather Motorcycle Jackets, leopard print, dark skinny jeans, black, blue, purple, and red colors. I guess you could say my style is a bit sexier than last year, too. But I had guys coming on to me over summer when I hadn’t even worn my new school clothes yet.
Thanks!
Go you! You seem really cool.
Well simply put its called growing up! lol. People change for the better(in your case) but then some change for the worse.
You should be happier. It’s good that you have confidence because people will respect you more and be friends with you.
Never had a boyfriend? Its not end of the world if you don’t have a boyfriend, don’t worry about it, I’m sure that you will find someone who likes you.
From what I have read you have a lot of admirers;) so is there anyone you like? Go and talk to him, drop some hints.
Lastly don’t let anyone take advantage of you or push you around, that goes for boyfriends and friends.
Wish you all the best! Be safe and Have fun!
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i think ur confidence got better
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Oh thats like me! But Im only 13, and I have your style and Im REALLY shy. But I moved to a new school and then this all happened…
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I cut my bangs too
don’t send the pictures, you will regret it!
and its prolly because you are more out going now.. guys like that.
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c o n f i d e n c e.
love your style
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090907110756AAQwXJD
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you have no idea the change that could happen when you change something (i used too be a bit preppiesh and girly without bangs last year and now i have bangs and i have plaid skinny jeans and all that so, i guess some people can look lots better wit h a small change)
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your confidence it major
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Thats strange lol.
But i think u deserve better guys than those, look for hgiher qualities.
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Your just getting older.
That’s what happens when people get older.
Eventually you’ll have to pay rent and go to work.
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Its all about your confidence. Guys can smell that on a lady. When you walk around with your head up, and don’t shy away from eye contact… That makes you sexy and approachable. Whatever you’re doing right now, keep it up. Unless, of course, you don’t like the attention.
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because that’s just high school when it’s over you wouldn’t be seeing those crowd almost everyday like you used to just enjoy those temporary attentions that you are getting while it lasted.
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Go you! You seem really cool.
Well simply put its called growing up! lol. People change for the better(in your case) but then some change for the worse.
You should be happier. It’s good that you have confidence because people will respect you more and be friends with you.
Never had a boyfriend? Its not end of the world if you don’t have a boyfriend, don’t worry about it, I’m sure that you will find someone who likes you.
From what I have read you have a lot of admirers;) so is there anyone you like? Go and talk to him, drop some hints.
Lastly don’t let anyone take advantage of you or push you around, that goes for boyfriends and friends.
Wish you all the best! Be safe and Have fun!
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Hey look a guy answering your Question, lol. This may sound odd but i know the answer. What happened was simple, you didn’t change really, the times did, and with it what people liked also changed i.e. whats attractive and whats not. Im 21 now , and a few years ago when i was in high school wat was popular is whats stupid know. You have probable been cool for your whole life but the times had not changed enough for most to realize it. It may sound weird but when your out of high school you’ll look back at what you liked with friends and laugh. P.S. not every thing will change but alot will.
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People are attracted to Confidence
It’s like if you were to go to a party. Do you wanna have fun? or do you want to console the girl in the bathroom who is crying because the boy she liked didn’t say anything else but a simple ‘hello’?
Stay confident and remember to always love and respect yourself.
And don’t become over confident, Vanity isn’t an attractive trait.
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you came out of your comfort zone. and also, i think the guy you mentioned made you feel awesome about yourself, helped a bit too. maybe others started to notice you more after one guy. i went through the same thing. a popular guy asked me out, then BAM i had a bunch of guys talking to me. you’re still you and don’t think you’ve changed. also your style. definitely your style. it’s more punk you could say, and guys find that so attractive, since most girls these days are all girly :p nothing wrong with being girly though! i am
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